3 - Day Ceremony Love and Respect

Holy Blessing To Return to True Father’s Authority (3)

Love and Respect

Husbands, change your wife lovingly

Husbands change your wife with “Love Barbecue”

Wives, change your husband respectfully

Women confront your husband with “Respectful Recipes”

So, husbands, we change our wife lovingly, with love; that is how we change her. We do not change her like how you change another guy, you know, like your boys. You do not change your wife like you try to change your boys! Amen! You do not go up to her, and say, “Look man! I think this is totally screwed up! You do not do that; you do not do that to me! That's messed up; you don't do that to me! You don't speak like that to me!” That is not the way to work it out with your wife! That is how you work it out with your guys, amen!

You work it out lovingly! I like to say, “You have to love barbecue.” Who likes barbecue? What do you do when you barbecue some baby back ribs? You have to lather it in barbecue sauce; you are using a steel brush or a bristle brush, a soft brush? You are using a soft brush. Are you just throwing it in, or are you lathering it? Then when you cook it, are you cooking it fast or are you doing a slow cook?

Okay! You understand what I am saying, men! You have to do the love barbecue. You know how to make some baby back ribs, that is how you have to make some baby back rib for your wife; she is the greatest baby back rib for you from heaven. Amen! So you got to cook it slow; you got to lather it, you got to smother it in that Sugar Ray citrus sweet barbecue! Whoo! Right, now I got the Holy Ghost!

Okay! Wives, change your husband respectfully! Do not go to your man and talk to him like you talk to your girlfriends! You will drive him crazy; he will run from you. Do not go to him and talk to him like you do to your girlfriends. He does not want to hear about the mother-in-law, and the auntie and the problem with this car, and that issue and that, and Maria is going through that; he does not want to hear that. You got to get to the point, right ladies?

This is what I call ‘the respectful recipe’. When you make a recipe list, it does not go on for fifty pages, right; when you are trying to explain a recipe to somebody, you do not give them fifty pages of recipe!

Amen! You certainly do not talk about Maria's problems or Martha's problems; you talk about the ingredients that you are going to use in that recipe, right. And you can't just say, “Throw some beans in there,” What kind of beans? We are going to use pinto beans, black beans? What other kinds of beans are there; kidney beans, navy beans? What are we going to use? Tell me specific! Amen! Be specific; be specific!

When you try to change your man with respect, think about the recipe ladies, the recipe. Keep it short, clear, very lucid, so he knows what you're talking about, he knows what to identify. He can go and buy the red kidney beans; he does not have to stand in front of the bean aisle and say, “Which beans do I have to buy?” He can go to the red kidney beans, pick them out, and get the next ingredient. Amen! Why are you laughing, ladies?

I tell you what my wife does to show me respect. When she has something I need to change, that she feels pulled on her spirit, she comes to me and she says, “Can I speak with you tomorrow at nine o'clock, and it will be ten minutes.” She tells me when, and then I will say, “Oh! Sure, yeah; we can meet at nine o'clock tomorrow.”

We are working on stuff. See, when men are working on things, even though it looks like they are watching football or playing video and whatever it is, they are actually thinking about other things. If they have to get a job done, they are thinking about that; but they are just trying to rest their brain for a couple of seconds before they get back to it.

Mark Unger says, ”Men in their head have many boxes, and the most important box is the do-nothing box. ’What are you doing?” “Nothing” What do you think about?” “Nothing!” Men have a do nothing box! You have to respect it! “What are you doing?” ”Nothing!” “Okay! I can respect that!” He is going to be like, “Wow! Praise God! ”

So, this is what my wife does: she comes to me, she doesn't say, “I need to talk to you now!” I am in the middle of something, right. How many men have encountered this? “We need to talk now!” I am in the middle of something; I am answering an email, or I am doing this. Or you know, I don't play video games, but some men love video games; some men love video games, and maybe they're resting their head because they've been all day cramming their brain on something, so just let them play the video game. It is not a big deal! Let them play a little bit!

Ask them, ”Honey, can we talk tomorrow, or can we talk tonight at nine for ten minutes?” That is what my wife does; she shows me that respect. And when she meets me you know what she does? She sets up her clock, she puts the clock in front of us; she puts the timer on ten minutes. Isn't that amazing? Isn't that amazing? How many men would love that?

You cannot promise a man, “I'm only going to go ten minutes, and go two hours,” because now he can't trust you. He cannot trust when you make that promise. So if the ladies do, as my wife does, she will set the time, set the date, and she will show me that she's serious about this issue, serious about my time as well. Amen! That is what she does! I am so grateful that my anointed wife does that to me, that she will respect me in that manner.

So there are small things we can do, but in the end it is the respect cycle. It is: loving our wife unconditionally, being the priest of the household, studying the Scripture, being the leader of the house, spiritual leader as well, going and covering your spouse with the Word of God, watering; it says, “ Wash with water with the Word of God”.

And in the other way, wives, also to unconditionally respect their husbands. This is what we do not hear in this third wave, postmodern, feminist- saturated ideological world. We never hear that. But the Scripture shows us the true answer to creating strong marriages, if we obey it. We have the answer right there.

Absolute Sex:

This is the most coveted and precious gift God gives to you as husband and wife.

Your Absolute Sex life should be glorious and abundant!

Your Absolute Sex life is the full expression of oneness in Christ

Your joyous Absolute Sex life and the romantic and positive energy it creates in the home will be THE GREATEST blessing you can give your descendants!!!

The third thing that we need to talk about quickly is Absolute Sex in marriage; your sexuality in marriage is critical to your marriage. How many know your children will come from your sexuality in marriage; your descendants will come from that sexuality in marriage? But we have become so conditioned by Satan’s kingdom that we cannot talk about the sanctity of sexuality in marriage, even in the churches; we have become so weak as the body of Christ that we're not even able to instruct families on the importance of sexuality in their marriage. In fact, it is the greatest gift, it is the most coveted and precious gift God gives us. Amen!

It is a grace as well; it's not something we deserve or we earn. It is something God gives us to our marriage, to unite us. What did the Scripture say? “The two will become one flesh.” That is the mystery of God! That is what Paul said; isn’t that what he said? There is a power there, there is an anointing there. Your Absolute Sex life should be strong, it should be abundant; there should be prosperity there. It should not be barren; if it is barren something's wrong, folks! Right, something is wrong. We have to get off some cycles, and get onto the heavenly cycle to build up the abundance in that marriage. Amen!

This is so important; I think it is underestimated how important your Absolute Sex life is. For men it is the primary place; it is the greatest way that we feel totally loved, totally accepted, and totally embraced. It is the greatest way that we feel like we are living as a son of God. It is that powerful as the glue to your marriage. However, at the same time, I see so many people try to use the Scripture or Father's words to say, “We have to do it three times a week, and that's the Law!”

God freed us from the Law; we are not trying to force the health of our Absolute Sex life, right? We are trying to create that, and manifest the environment where the Holy Spirit and God can be present when we come together as husband and wife. How many know there is the Holy Spirit, the presence of God is there when husband and wife come together of one mind, one heart, one accord and in one body, one flesh. Amen!

There is a Holy Spirit anointing that you will find nowhere else. I do not care what church you go to; when you are with your spouse in the embrace of full trust, love and vulnerability, and when Absolute Sex life is powerful and abundant, there is no more powerful anointing, no more powerful motivator for you to go out and defeat Satan. Amen!

Ladies, stop thinking men are perverts! They are not perverts; that is how much they want you! That is how much they want you. Amen! God made men that way, so we can chase you, so we can hunt you, not to kill you but to love you with everything we have.

Your Absolute Sex life is the gift from God to your marriage. After the Blessing, after the 3-Day Ceremony, Satan has no claim on your marriage; he has no claim on your intimacy. It is totally separated and it is in the presence of God. So our Absolute Sex life is the full expression of oneness in Christ, and your joyous Absolute Sex life and the romantic positive energy that that will create in your family will be the greatest gift you give to your descendants. It is the greatest gift!

When you have a powerful Absolute Sex marriage, you are giving your children the greatest blessing, the greatest blessing! How many know that teenage suicide and all those things with psychological diseases are related primarily, mostly, to parental dysfunction, right? But when you have a powerful, anointed man and woman of God, who are coming together, who are powerful in their abundance, in their Absolute Sex life, which is powerful in creating that energy of intimacy and joy unspeakable, your children will reap the blessings of that. They will want to get blessed; they will have a model in their head to work off of when they get married. Amen!

We saw in the Scripture this weekend: we do not fight for the victory, we fight from the victory; we fight from the victory! If your children have victorious parents who are powerful in their Absolute Sex marriage, they are fighting from a victory! You have already made them empowered, and they already have the victory of you, so that now when they get blessed and they get faced by Satan's attack, now they can fight from the victory, not for their own victory; they're fighting from your victory. Amen! That is how powerful your marriage is! That is how powerful your intimacy is! It will have impact on your children; it will absolutely have impact on your children!

We talk about Absolute Sex all the time with our children, openly because we do not want some progressive teaching them about sexuality, right? We want them to learn from their parents, and the gift that God has given us in marriage. We do not want to wait until they are learning it from MTV and who else, these stars, Lady Gaga, or wherever they're learning it. We want to root it in God. Amen! And this joyous life of the Absolute Sex marriage, the power that it creates and the joy that it creates!

Husbands, as you romance your wife, as you chase after her, you will create an incredible energy that your children will be fed off, and strengthened in when now they are getting blessed. It has repercussions beyond your personal relationship with your spouse, because you are fulfilling the Word of God in life. And because you are standing obedient to the Word of God, God is blessing your generations. Amen! That is what the Word said; He is “blessing your generations and your children will be blessed.”

Umma, you want to say something quickly about that, real quickly?

Yeon Ah Nim:

Thank you so much! Let us give one more round of applause to my husband! Thank you so much!

You know he bragged about me too much! I do not know if I can live up to that expectation. I have to think and pray about that.

You know I just want to make a quick point about the crazy cycle: without love she reacts without respect; without respect he reacts without love. That cycle, that crazy cycle!

You know, women, we nag because we care actually; that is absolutely true. I mean I know men do not understand this, but we nag because we care. If we do not care we are not going to nag okay? “Who are you? I don't care about you,” But we nag because we care, and most of our ladies here can agree with that. So, men, when your wife nags, please understand that's a clue, “Oh, she needs love, okay?” That's a very important cue that she's giving to you.

But another side is: when women nag men, men actually think that's a sign of contempt, right, hatred, “Oh, she hates me! Oh, here it goes again. She does not trust me; that is why she nags. She thinks I'm a kid or something, that's why she nags!” But about that point, we really have to understand where man is coming from, where woman is coming from. It is actually so true.

You know my husband said I make an appointment with him for ten minutes, and I do ten minutes; actually, it's thirty minutes okay? So he's giving me a clue that I have to reduce it to ten minutes! I got it; I got it! But I do actually do that. I take out my iPhone, I make a schedule with him, I put it in my iPhone schedule list, and I put out my iPhone for thirty minutes, and then I press the start; and I try to finish it within thirty minutes. Okay, I will work on that!

Another thing I do with my husband is I actually email to him. Because we do ministry together there's not only the family matter but also there's ministry matter; okay, this person wants to make an appointment, there is something that needs to be done, so I actually email to him. He is right there; he is right in front of me. He is right in front of me doing something, but I make a list and I email him, and that is how he responds to me in terms of ministry work. The reason I do that is that it's more effective, and I don't have to get into him emotionally or, “How can you be so careless about this person? This person is in the hospital, and how can you just do something else?” I don't have to get into that; I simply get to the point, and that's the respect recipe right- we just talked about it.

And men, you know what? I know you guys have something that you want to fix about your wife, something that is not really lovable, but you know the barbecue has to be between the sandwich buns, right, you know you have to prepare your wife that something is coming; the bun has to be soft, right, and if it's butter, that’s even nicer, with a little bit of seasoning on top of it!

So brothers and sisters, you know we talked about many things, but you know I really believe our Blessing comes from God. I think that's the most important point you know. Our Blessing, we have to hold on to it, and center on God, and whenever you struggle, go back to the Scripture and what the Scripture told you. We have to respect our husband unconditionally, and the husband loves his wife unconditionally.

And handsome husband, it's your turn to close it!

Rev. Hyung Jin Sean Moon

Amen! Thank you Umma! Let’s give her a big round of applause, everybody!

We want to start the Holy Wine Ceremony so please, attendants, can you prepare the Holy Wine now? Let's prepare the Holy Wine now.

And you know one thing that is so important is, as husband and wife to pray together. Please pray together! When you're going through stuff, and you can't work it out, we’re the priest of the household, men; we go to our wife and say, “Honey, let's pray about this! We can't seem to break through, we can't seem to communicate” or, “You can't understand what I'm saying, I can’t understand you. Let's pray about it! Let's pray together!” Bring God in! This is God's Covenant!

Amen! This is God's marriage! Lead your wife to prayer, right; stand in prayer with her. Stand in prayer with her, you will see a tremendous shift; a tremendous shift in the spirit. Yes can we pray?

Having prayer in our life is so important!

We're going to, now take the Holy Wine. I'm going to have the attendants come down. Let's prepare the Holy Wine Ceremony, please attendants; they will help you with the Holy Wine and everything else.

What a beautiful day! Let's give our couples one more time a great round of applause as they stand now and prepare for the Covenant. Amen! Amen! Give your spouse a hug, guys; give your spouse a hug! Tell them, “We are one in God!” Amen!

Please bring the Holy Wine; let's have the couples take the Holy Wine! The Holy Wine is the transferring of our blood lineage, the lineage that was lost at the Fall of man, when the children of God became the children of the devil, of Satan. So, the Holy Wine represents the blood of Christ, to engraft us back onto the blood of Christ, so that the blood of Christ is not only covering you, but the blood of Christ is within you; the blood of Christ, which is what? It is the blood of God; it is the lineage of God. And that is what we become as we take the Holy Wine!

Holy Wine Ceremony:

So, please take the Holy Wine in your hands now. Please face each other. The wife will have half of the cup. If you're alone and you have your wife there in the spirit with you, or she's participating from a different country, the husband will take half on her behalf, first in that position. So the wife now may proceed to take half of the Holy Wine please.

Praise God! Let's give them a big round of applause everybody! Come on; let's give God some praise! Now please transfer the cup to your husband; give it to him now, and the husband will take the rest of the Holy Wine, the blood of Christ, the blood of Christ! Amen and Aju! Amen!

Let's give God some praise everybody! Let's give Him some praise! Whoo!

Soon we will begin the Blessing. God bless you! God bless you! Beautiful! Beautiful!